the way it always happens

I can tell you are pulling away.

you're probably blaming me.

but make no mistake. it's you.

we were the best of friends

but now that your divorce is 

almost final, you seem to be

changing 

in ways I don't approve of.

you're making new rules

and making it hard to get the girls together.

your daughter should not be 

missing out on time with her friends because you 

are too lonely when she is not there.

so in essence you are ruining two friendships.

I am sorry I have a full time job

and can't spend all my time off with you

but grown-ups do what they need to

to make sure the family is taken care of

and I still have my mariiage to think about.