Love is a funny thing. When you're a kid you're not sure what love is, you may confuse lust for love or even like for love. You watch a lot of movies that show you what it should be - from a directors and writers point of view but the movies only confuse you more....... And the worst part is that when you're an adult - It doesn't get any better.
Thankfully, there are well-paid analysts that explain that we're not "really in love" it's only our insecurities that make us "want to be in love" so we make poor choices or even cheat on our spouse when the things at home are getting tough.
And the truth is that my insecurities have made me make poor choices and cheat on my spouse when things got tough. They also made me get really jealous when I didn't have a right to be and some other things that make for good blogging material.
If nothing else, at least I've learned that you can't depend on other people for your happiness. You've only got yourself.
This is good advice, but it can also get you into the same trouble that Pee Wee Herman had when he found himself arrested in a Florida smut theater.
Your Humble Servant,
Mr. X
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Wanting to be appreciated and loved is vital in any relationship. Sometimes both parties just need a gentle nudge as a reminder.
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